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The story of an elusive, magical figure flying around the world, leaving lavish and plentiful gifts for some children and next to nothing for others, seems like a particularly ridiculous and unedifying myth to perpetuate - nevertheless, that's something for each individual parent to decide - but why decry those who choose not to go along with the pretense? A refusal to conform to the peculiar charades of others might be impolite but it's no indication of insecurity.

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This morning Rowan said "I think all the Santas you see around in shops and things aren't real." He paused to see our reaction and, seeing that we weren't shocked or confused, went on with a smile, "they have strings on their ears. The last one at our school was the worst one. His sleigh was just a buggy and he looked different." We didn't say anything about this but he knew from that itself that he'd got that right.

I said, "But, you know, all the circles we see everywhere aren't real either. There's this idea of a circle but none of the circles are quite right."

Hannah said "that sounds like Platonism, you must be feeling very uncomfortable as an Aristotelian."

"Very uncomfortable," I agreed, "Look if I draw some circles," and I did, "they all have some tiny bit wrong, this one's all squodgy at the top, look, this one's flat at the bottom. And even the ones they draw with machines, if we looked with your microscope, we'd find wobbly bits at the edges. We think there's a real circle somewhere but that place isn't really anywhere."

"I'm going to draw a triangle," said Rowan.

"Look, yes, we can say that yours is a triangle and mine is a circle, but yours isn't a really proper triangle, look it has a hole in the corner."

"I'm going to invent some new shapes," said Rowan, and he began announcing their names: "Dragon-head, semioval, mummyplasm, labyrinth-handbag."

And that is where we have left the discussion for now.

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